Why This Site Exists

Marco Ricci

The Story Behind Italian Family Traditions

"I built this site because after my grandfather died I realized I didn't know why we did half the things we did. The traditions were everywhere in that house. I just never thought to ask."


My name is Marco Ricci. I grew up in Montreal in a Calabrian-Canadian household where the traditions were everywhere — in the kitchen, in the calendar, in the specific way certain days of the year had a weight that no one ever fully explained but everyone understood.

I remember tomato day. Late summer, the whole family assembled, cases of tomatoes going through the mill, jars filling up on every surface, the smell of it filling the house for days. Nobody sat me down and told me this was important. It just was. You could feel it in how seriously everyone took their role, in the specific silence that settled over the work, in the way my grandfather moved through that kitchen like he had been doing it for a hundred years — because in a sense, he had.

When he died, I realized how much I had taken for granted. I work in science and engineering. I think in systems and evidence. But after he was gone, I kept finding myself trying to reconstruct things I had half-learned, half-absorbed, and never quite written down. The reason we did certain things at Christmas. What the feast days actually meant. Why specific foods belonged to specific days. What the old sayings were really saying. Why the traditions that seemed like habit were actually carrying something much older and much more deliberate than habit.

I started Italian Family Traditions because I needed to understand what I had grown up inside — and because I suspected I was not the only one who had lost touch with what their ancestors were trying to teach them. This site is for the Italian-Canadian and Italian-American descendants who want more than nostalgia. It is for people who want to understand what these traditions actually were, where they came from, what they meant in family life, how they changed after immigration, and how to keep them alive for the next generation in a way that feels real rather than performative.

The research is careful. The writing is personal. And the goal is simple: to make sure that what our grandparents carried across the ocean does not disappear in the generation that forgot to ask.

— Marco Ricci
Founder, Italian Family Traditions
Montreal


Marco Ricci is an Italian-Canadian writer and the grandson of Calabrian immigrants. He created Italian Family Traditions to document the customs, feast days, and folk traditions Italian families carried from Italy to North America — and to understand what they actually meant. He is based in Montreal.


What You Will Find Here

Every post on this site is built from three things: personal family memory, careful research into the historical and cultural roots of each tradition, and the specific experience of growing up Italian-Canadian in Montreal. That combination — the personal, the researched, and the diasporic — is what makes this site different from a general Italian culture blog.

  • The feast days, saints' days, and seasonal customs that shaped the Italian family calendar
  • The table traditions, food rituals, and kitchen customs that carried culture from one generation to the next
  • The folk beliefs, superstitions, and protective charms Italian families brought with them
  • The immigration story — what changed when families left Italy, and what they refused to let go
  • How to keep these traditions alive today in Italian-Canadian and Italian-American families

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Our Core Values​

These principles guide our mission to honor and share the beauty of Italian heritage and family traditions.​

Authenticity​

These traditions are explored as they actually were — not romanticized, not simplified. The complicated parts, the regional variations, the things that changed after immigration, and the things that did not. All of it.

Community​

This site is written from inside the tradition, not outside it. The stories, the seasonal rhythms, the specific weight of certain days — these are not academic observations. They are memories trying to become something useful.

Education​

The goal is not to preserve traditions like museum pieces. It is to help families keep them alive in ways that make sense in modern life — because the best way to honour what came before is to let it keep working.

You Are Not the Only One Who Wants to Remember

Whether you grew up with these traditions or you are discovering them for the first time, this site is a place to understand where they came from and how to carry them forward.

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